A New Adventure...

My daughter Jasmine is autistic and I have decided to address some issues that face parents who have children with special needs. A recent one came up in my own life and I have spoken to several parents who have dealt with the same issue. Once I get things rolling I will write about it...

Our Bill is Now a LAW!

I know this announcement is a little late, but life needed my attention... But yes, you heard right! SB 1141 aka. HB 2361 is now § 19.2-386.32... The bill did not pass as it was written, but what did survive of the initial proposal will hopefully aid in the recovery of a child who has been internationally abducted. The law was effective July 1, 2011. Let's take a look at all the steps that had to be taken for this law to be created!

* 01/12/11 Senate: Prefiled and ordered printed; offered 01/12/11 11101219D
* 01/12/11 Senate: Referred to Committee for Courts of Justice
* 01/13/11 Senate: Assigned Courts sub: Civil
* 01/31/11 Senate: Committee substitute printed 11104839D-S1
* 01/31/11 Senate: Reported from Courts of Justice with substitute (15-Y 0-N)
* 02/01/11 Senate: Constitutional reading dispensed (40-Y 0-N)
* 02/02/11 Senate: Read second time
* 02/02/11 Senate: Reading of substitute waived
* 02/02/11 Senate: Committee substitute agreed to 11104839D-S1
* 02/02/11 Senate: Engrossed by Senate - committee substitute SB1141S1
* 02/03/11 Senate: Read third time and passed Senate (40-Y 0-N)
* 02/07/11 House: Placed on Calendar
* 02/07/11 House: Read first time
* 02/07/11 House: Referred to Committee for Courts of Justice
* 02/21/11 House: Reported from Courts of Justice (22-Y 0-N)
* 02/23/11 House: Read second time
* 02/24/11 House: Read third time
* 02/24/11 House: Passed House BLOCK VOTE (98-Y 0-N)
* 02/24/11 House: VOTE: BLOCK VOTE PASSAGE (98-Y 0-N)
* 02/24/11 House: Reconsideration of House passage agreed to by House
* 02/24/11 House: Passed House BLOCK VOTE (99-Y 0-N)
* 02/24/11 House: VOTE: PASSAGE #2 (99-Y 0-N)
* 03/03/11 Senate: Enrolled
* 03/03/11 Senate: Bill text as passed Senate and House (SB1141ER)
* 03/03/11 House: Signed by Speaker
* 03/06/11 Senate: Signed by President
* 03/26/11 Senate: Governor's recommendation received by Senate
* 04/05/11 Senate: Placed on Calendar
* 04/06/11 Senate: Senate concurred in Governor's recommendation (40-Y 0-N)
* 04/06/11 House: House concurred in Governor's recommendation (96-Y 0-N)
* 04/06/11 House: VOTE: ADOPTION (96-Y 0-N)
* 04/06/11 Governor: Governor's recommendation adopted
* 04/06/11 Senate: Reenrolled
* 04/06/11 Senate: Reenrolled bill text (SB1141ER2)
* 04/06/11 Senate: Signed by President as reenrolled
* 04/06/11 House: Signed by Speaker as reenrolled
* 04/06/11 House: Enacted, Chapter 852 (effective 7/1/11)
* 04/06/11 Governor: Acts of Assembly Chapter text (CHAP0852)

Thank you to everyone who supported this bill, with a special thank you to Senator Martin, Senator Quayle, and Delegate McClellan.

$29.95 +Tax

Today I say farewell to my twenties and hello to the thirties. I came across this witty little piece written by Andy Rooney about turning thirty. It's comical, especially the ending and so I thought I'd share it with you! Enjoy!

Turning 30
by Andy Rooney

As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?". She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women
friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free." Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

Still waiting....

So time ticks on as I still anxiously await our bill to become law. I check LIS a couple times a day, everyday, hoping to see that it has become a law, but it hasn't happened yet. I'm guessing it will happen when I'm having the worst day of my life and I need a pick me up... You have to love those moments! In the meanwhile I'm just continuing to work on my never ending custody case... Continue to keep me in your prayers.

((Jeopardy Theme continues to play))

I must be the most impatient person in the world! I am anxiously awaiting the signature of Gov. McDonnell on HB2361. I am excited that it has reached it's last hurdle, but I won't be able to rest easy until it jumps over it! In the meantime, I have my paralegal classes to keep me busy and my growing interest in the developments in the Middle East. Currently over 10 countries have ships off Libya's coast and oil and commodity prices are steadily rising. Things aren't looking good.

Anyway, I will keep you posted about the bill. I'm anticipating a signature by the end of the week, but by the look of the list on LIS, Gov. McDonnell has a lot of signing to do!

Our bill has been signed by the Speaker and the President!

Great news! Our bill has been signed by the President and the Speaker... what does this mean? The next step is for our bill to be placed on Governor McDonnell's desk for his signature and then it will be a law! I am so excited about our bill. It was definitely a learning experience and we didn't get exactly what we asked for, but we did get something that's extremely important and that's the forfeiture of all assets of the abductor in international child abduction cases.

Of course the success of this law will depend on interpretation and whether it can be enforced as intended. But below is the journey our bill has taken to get where it is:

01/12/11 House: Prefiled and ordered printed; offered 01/12/11 11102905D
01/12/11 House: Referred to Committee for Courts of Justice
01/21/11 House: Assigned Courts sub: #2 Civil
01/26/11 House: Subcommittee recommends reporting with amendment(s) (9-Y 0-N)
01/31/11 House: Reported from Courts of Justice with substitute (22-Y 0-N)
01/31/11 House: Committee substitute printed 11104760D-H1
02/02/11 House: Read first time
02/03/11 House: Read second time
02/03/11 House: Committee substitute agreed to 11104760D-H1
02/03/11 House: Engrossed by House - committee substitute HB2361H1
02/04/11 House: Read third time and passed House BLOCK VOTE (98-Y 0-N)
02/04/11 House: VOTE: BLOCK VOTE PASSAGE (98-Y 0-N)
02/07/11 Senate: Constitutional reading dispensed
02/07/11 Senate: Referred to Committee for Courts of Justice
02/09/11 Senate: Reported from Courts of Justice with amendments (14-Y 0-N)
02/11/11 Senate: Constitutional reading dispensed (39-Y 0-N)
02/14/11 Senate: Read third time
02/14/11 Senate: Reading of amendments waived
02/14/11 Senate: Committee amendments agreed to
02/14/11 Senate: Engrossed by Senate as amended
02/14/11 Senate: Passed Senate with amendments (40-Y 0-N)
02/15/11 House: Placed on Calendar
02/16/11 House: Senate amendments agreed to by House (97-Y 0-N)
02/16/11 House: VOTE: ADOPTION (97-Y 0-N)
02/22/11 House: Enrolled
02/22/11 House: Bill text as passed House and Senate (HB2361ER)
02/22/11 House: Signed by Speaker
02/23/11 Senate: Signed by President

One more step and we have a law!

Sorry I have been MIA for so long but life went and got busy on me :) Anyway, good news, actually GREAT news! It appears that our bill, HB2361 is reaching the finish line and should be signed by Governor McDonnell hopefully next week. This has definitely been a learning experience and a very interesting journey and I've enjoyed every moment of it.

It was empowering to speak before the house especially for someone like myself who still struggles with self confidence. Being in an abusive relationship can destroy a person and at one point "Brandy Charles" was destroyed... But thank God "Brandy Bond" is back and stronger than ever! Speaking of... My transformation is complete! Last week I received my social security card with the name "Brandy Mariah Bond" printed on it. To some that might sound insignificant, but when your stripped of your identity by an abusive spouse, it feels great to rid yourself of the last name attached to the pain and become who you were before the abusive marriage.

Please keep your eye out for the BIG ANNOUNCEMENT... :)